Be Like A Magnet

A very spiritual woman I know shared the following with me: she said, 'I used to have unfortunate beliefs about myself and I received back from external influences unfortunate results. When I decided to take control and raise my resonance, to be the change I wanted to become, to allow abundance and love come flow through me, absolutely everything fell into place. I am now living a life of leisure with a beautiful husband and I can draw what I want into my universe at will.'

What is a love magnet, money magnet, or health magnet? What does it take to become a magnet?

It takes a shift in perception and really, that's all it takes.

Pay attention to what you focus on. Do you automatically expect a depressing day when it rains? Do you make assumptions that you'll be happy when it's sunny? What would happen to assume all rainy days are going to be glorious because you can splash through puddles or get indoor activities taken care of.

By putting our focus on good, we draw good to us. Conversely, by focusing on grief, we draw more to grieve. There's absolutely a place for grief in our lives, I'm not suggesting otherwise, but we need to be mindful that we are not suffering over our own suffering and not continually drawing grief to us.

I overheard a girl in a caf the other day telling her friend, 'I'm a freak magnet. I can't leave my apartment without running into someone either clinically insane or whacked out on drugs or fanatical about some weirdness who wants to have extensive interaction with me.'

Her friend responded, 'That's strange. Your neighborhood is really nice. I can't imagine there would be too many freaks around there.'

'I don't know. The freaks just seem to find me. They're everywhere that I am. They're just out there waiting for me to leave the house to try to get me to join their cult.'

Of course, I didn't interrupt, but I thought to myself, how awful for this girl to believe this about herself. She's unconsciously drawing the lowest common denominator to her by putting out this energy into the world.

This is really how attraction works. What you think about yourself, you are. What you believe about the world, is your reality. What you speak, is your truth.

I was tempted, but didn't tell her, 'You could just as easily not be a 'freak magnet' by telling yourself you're some other kind of magnet.' My intrusion, sadly, would have merely confirmed her self-diagnosis and she'd misinterpret my attempt at kindness as just another freak trying to freak her out.

So whatever your beliefs are about the world, I implore you, take this freak's advice and adjust it to bring you all that you ever wanted and not the lowest common denominator.

About the Author

Kenrick Cleveland teaches techniques to earn the business of affluent clients using persuasion. He runs public and private seminars and offers home study courses and coaching programs in persuasion techniques. This and other unique content 'persuasion' articles are available with free reprint rights.

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